As much as I like sex and as much as I like having it a lot sometimes (not often, but sometimes) it’s nice to have a small break from it. Well actually the break itself isn’t nice but going back to it after a small break can feel just amazing. Let me explain.
When you’re in the early stage of a relationship it’s wonderful feeling to get to know each other’s body. It’s all new and exciting and very passionate (at least it should be). You don’t see each other all the time so you’re pretty turned on and passionate when you do get the chance to explorer the new sexy person you’ve met. When time passes and you spend more time together sex can get even better but some of the exciment of dealing with something new disappears. It’s not a bad thing but seeing each other all the time and having sex often might make it less exciting. It’s like the difference between eating something exotic and special every now and then or every day – if you have it daily, it’s not that exotic anymore although you still like it.
So to get back that crazy passion and exciment it’s nice to have a little break from sex. When you don’t have it every time you feel like it you start to crave for it and want it even more. And when you finally do it, it’s just amazing. I’m not saying here people should start to have less sex – no way! – but if you do have it a lot a little break every now and then might spice up your sex life. It’s of course up to the couple how long the break needs to be to do the trick. For me and my man four days without sex was enough to drive us absolutely crazy and the sex we had after the break was really something else.
As I’ve wrote here before, we have a lot of sex. A lot of good sex. We have been together for three years and we live together but that hasn’t changed the fact we want each other a lot and often. I’ve never had had bad or even average sex with my man and this is no joke. It’s always good and he is a wonderful lover. He makes me feel sexy and he always considers me in the bed at least as much as himself. We’re comfortable with each other and kind of experimental – we like to spice up our sex life and try new things. Still though the exotic fruit isn’t as exotic if you have it every single day, so therefore this small four days break made the chemistry between us even stronger and the sex ever more passionate.
I felt like exploding all the time from the first kiss to the wonderful multiple orgasms he gave me. He was the same, I could definitely hear it and feel it. It was so good even thinking about it now makes me feel like exploding again. I wont be wanting to have these little breaks all the time or even every second week but it definitely is something I can consider doing sometime again.